so....a couple weeks ago M & i had a custody conference. it was the 2 of us, our 2 lawyers, & a special master (who really is just another lawyer). informal.
going in, i prayed that the special master would be fair.
CLEARLY this was the wrong prayer.
i lost primary physical custody because M's schedule allows him to have a ton of time with the kids. we now share joint custody.
ugh.
fuck me.
i just got the papers in the mail today. and i'll be appealing. i'm SO not ok with this situation....especially given M's mental state. (more on that some other day)
so, instead of being ready to end this whole thing quickly, we'll be heading in for more conferences & hearings. greeeeeat.
but it'll be worth every second, every penny, & every sleepless, worry-filled night.
but this time, i'll pray the right prayer.
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Wow, Ali i am so sorry, I'll be praying for you and your little ones too!
Oh crap! Sorry to hear about this. You fight that fight and get your babies back where they belong. You shouldn't be punished for bettering yourself by going to school and working.
Well, I sure hope you post another update soon, I'm interested in the whole "M's mental state" thing.
But let me ask - if you're really concerned about "M's mental state" then why are you even OK with visitation?
And believe me - sometimes "unanswered" or "denied" prayers really do end up to be best!
i'm not ok with it...but i don't have a choice. legally my hands are tied right now. so we'll see what happens....
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