Dear M: A Reprise

Dear M,

FYI it is NOT ok to blow off your children for a girl.

but don't worry....i'm fending off the why aren't we with daddy tonight questions. and the kids are great. and i'm still fucking supermom.

i talked to him last night. and he was already hesitant about picking up the kids tonight. i knew exactly where it was leading. i even explained to him that i have chemo VERY early in the morning, so i really needed him to get the kids tonight. he called me at work today, trying to be all light & funny. then he dropped the bomb i knew was coming....."i'm not getting the kids tonight."

shocker.

i've been fending off questions all day. and just now he finally fessed up he's with a chick. and she & her son will be with them tomorrow night at a baseball game.

now, i am NOT jealous. i'd be very happy to see him in a relationship. his deal since we've split is to fuck 'em & leave 'em. you know the type....get laid & never call again. so if he'd chill out with 1 chick that'd be great. and maybe he'd be less of an asshole to me.

HOWEVER....1 or 2 dates doesn't equal getting to meet my children. nor does it mean having your kid around mine.

yes, my kids have met mr sunday. but he & i have been dating for awhile. and there's some sort of future there. idk what just yet, but he'll be around for quite some time.

but this shit is ridiculous.

so, my dear ex-husband...please grow the fuck up. stop thinking with your dick & start thinking with your tiny, pea-sized brain. be a father. or else give them up. you fought so hard for your time with them. thanks for proving is was all about the money & getting your support lowered.

oh, and don't worry. the kids are already realizing what you are.

and that most definitely is NOT a father.